Tables turn, Bridges burn, You live and learn.

Ever since I moved From New Zealand to Perth two years ago, i've never felt so relaxed and at peace with myself.

It may be all of the extra vitamin D that i'm  or maybe it's all the yum food I'm consuming but i'm pretty sure it's because Perth and Australia in general, is an amazing place to live.

New Zealand is absolutely gorgeous and everyone is so lovely (Don't get me wrong!)

It will always be home but you know sometimes you need to force yourself to change. 

You sometimes get so comfortable and stuck in your routines that you just feel stuck.

You don't need to make a big change - just a few small ones to get yourself out of that rut. Take chances and try new things. Put yourself out there and meet new people. It's all about growing and learning and finding out who you really are.

Perth. It's forced me to grow up a lot and to accept that i cant change everything - even if i wanted to more than anything. 

I have taken chances and friendships have changed or ended for one reason or another but everything happens for a reason and i am so blessed that things have worked out the way they have. Everything is perfect.

I have grown. I'm so much more confident and happy with myself than i ever have been before. I grew into the girl (woman..i'm actually a woman but i still like to say i'm a girl) that i am today. 

Some people disliked this. I don't know if it was jealousy or actual hate but they would just complain that i am "different" and that i have "changed". 

If anyone ever says that to you. Ever. You tell them to "fuck off". You don't need that negativity in your life. Not from anybody.

"Best friends" or just "acquaintances". It doesn't matter. Nobody knows you like you do and you don't ever need to take shit from anybody. Period.

I've had to learn the hard way that yes, people do change but everything happens for a reason.

If they aren't meant to be in your life and they walk away from you when life is hard then just let them walk.

They don't deserve to be around you when life is good again.

"Tables turn, bridges burn, you live and learn."

This is perfect. Sums it all up. 

Never be afraid to step out and just be who you want to be.

Never be afraid of what people may think of you.

Take some chances and make some changes.

Don't be afraid of what may come.

You are the only one who matters. It's your life. Live it the way you want to.

Love

MMMxo